How to Choose a Therapist: Complete Checklist

Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming. Use this free interactive checklist to find a qualified therapist you trust.

Created by a BACP-registered therapist
Used by 2,000+ people
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Why This Checklist Matters

Relationship is Key

The therapeutic relationship is the #1 factor in therapy success—more important than technique or modality.

Know What to Look For

Most people don't know what credentials to verify or what questions to ask. This checklist guides you.

Find the Right Fit

This ensures you find a safe, qualified therapist who's right for YOU—not just any therapist.

Verify Credentials

The Non-Negotiables

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Assess Fit

The Compatibility Factors

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First Consultation Questions

What to Ask (Copy-Paste Ready)

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Red Flags

When to Walk Away

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Ready to Start Your Search?

Now that you know what to look for, here are your next steps:

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Search Professional Directories

BACP Therapist Finder, Counselling Directory, or Google therapists in your area

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Shortlist 3-5 Therapists

Who meet credential requirements, specialize in your concern, and fit your budget

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Book Free Consultations

Most therapists offer brief initial calls to discuss fit and answer questions

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Trust Your Instincts

Who felt easiest to talk to? Who explained clearly? Who would "get" you?

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Book Your First Session

Give it 3-4 sessions to assess fit. Therapy can feel uncomfortable at first, but you should feel SAFE.

If you're looking for a therapist in South West London, I'd be happy to discuss whether I might be a good fit for you.

BACP-registered humanistic therapist
Integrative approach (Person-Centred, TA, Gestalt)
Specialising in anxiety, relationships, self-esteem, life transitions
In-person (Fulham), video, or walking therapy
Free 15-minute phone consultation
Flexible pricing with block discounts and student rates
Book Free Consultation

If I'm not the right fit, I can recommend other excellent therapists in the area.

If You're in Crisis

If you're experiencing a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please reach out for immediate support:

Samaritans: 116 123 (24/7, free from any phone)

Shout Crisis Text Line: Text SHOUT to 85258 (24/7, free)

Emergency: Call 999 or go to A&E if you're in immediate danger

Important: This checklist is for entertainment purposes only. It is not a diagnostic instrument and should not be used as a substitute for professional advice.

Always consult with a qualified mental health professional for personalized guidance. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact emergency services immediately.