How to Choose a Therapist: Complete Checklist
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming. Use this free interactive checklist to find a qualified therapist you trust.
Why This Checklist Matters
Relationship is Key
The therapeutic relationship is the #1 factor in therapy success—more important than technique or modality.
Know What to Look For
Most people don't know what credentials to verify or what questions to ask. This checklist guides you.
Find the Right Fit
This ensures you find a safe, qualified therapist who's right for YOU—not just any therapist.
Verify Credentials
The Non-Negotiables
Assess Fit
The Compatibility Factors
First Consultation Questions
What to Ask (Copy-Paste Ready)
Red Flags
When to Walk Away
Ready to Start Your Search?
Now that you know what to look for, here are your next steps:
Search Professional Directories
BACP Therapist Finder, Counselling Directory, or Google therapists in your area
Shortlist 3-5 Therapists
Who meet credential requirements, specialize in your concern, and fit your budget
Book Free Consultations
Most therapists offer brief initial calls to discuss fit and answer questions
Trust Your Instincts
Who felt easiest to talk to? Who explained clearly? Who would "get" you?
Book Your First Session
Give it 3-4 sessions to assess fit. Therapy can feel uncomfortable at first, but you should feel SAFE.
If you're looking for a therapist in South West London, I'd be happy to discuss whether I might be a good fit for you.
If I'm not the right fit, I can recommend other excellent therapists in the area.
If You're in Crisis
If you're experiencing a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please reach out for immediate support:
Samaritans: 116 123 (24/7, free from any phone)
Shout Crisis Text Line: Text SHOUT to 85258 (24/7, free)
Emergency: Call 999 or go to A&E if you're in immediate danger
Important: This checklist is for entertainment purposes only. It is not a diagnostic instrument and should not be used as a substitute for professional advice.
Always consult with a qualified mental health professional for personalized guidance. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact emergency services immediately.