Walking into therapy for the first time can feel like entering a foreign country. Everyone speaks a language you don't quite understand: CBT, person-centred, psychodynamic, integrative, EMDR...
What do these words actually mean? And more importantly, which one do you need?
The truth is, the therapeutic approach matters less than you might think—research consistently shows the therapeutic relationship is the strongest predictor of outcomes. But different approaches do suit different people and problems better.
This guide explains the main types of therapy available in the UK, what each involves, who they help most, and how to choose.
The Main Categories
Therapy approaches can be grouped into three broad categories:
1. Cognitive-Behavioural (thinking and doing): Focus on thoughts, beliefs, and behaviours
2. Humanistic-Existential (experiencing and being): Focus on personal growth, present experience, and authentic living
3. Psychodynamic-Analytic (understanding and insight): Focus on unconscious patterns, past experiences, and deep exploration
Within these categories sit specific modalities. Let's explore the most common.
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
What It Is
CBT is a structured, goal-oriented therapy that examines the relationship between thoughts, feelings, and behaviours.
Core premise: Your thoughts influence your feelings, which influence your behaviours. By changing unhelpful thought patterns, you can change how you feel and act.
How It Works
Typical session:
- Identify specific problems
- Examine thoughts about the problem
- Challenge unhelpful or distorted thinking
- Develop alternative, more balanced thoughts
- Practice new behaviours
Homework: CBT involves between-session tasks—thought records, behavioural experiments, exposure exercises.
Duration: Usually time-limited (8-20 sessions)
What Makes It Distinct
- Structured: Clear agenda each session
- Present-focused: Concentrates on current problems, not childhood
- Evidence-based: Strong research support for specific disorders
- Directive: Therapist actively teaches and guides
- Practical: Emphasises tools and techniques
Best For
Specific anxiety disorders:
- Panic disorder
- Social anxiety
- Health anxiety
- Specific phobias
- OCD
Depression: Particularly effective for moderate depression
Other conditions:
- Eating disorders (often CBT-E—Enhanced CBT)
- Insomnia (CBT-I)
- Chronic pain management
- PTSD (trauma-focused CBT)
Less Suitable For
- Deep exploratory work
- Personality difficulties
- Relational trauma
- People who want to understand "why," not just "how to cope"
Finding a CBT Therapist
Look for:
- Accredited CBT training (Diploma/MSc in CBT)
- BABCP registration (British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies)
- IAPT experience (many NHS CBT therapists)
Person-Centred Therapy
What It Is
Developed by Carl Rogers, person-centred therapy trusts your innate capacity for growth and self-healing.
Core premise: You are the expert on yourself. Given the right conditions (acceptance, empathy, genuineness), you'll naturally move towards growth and healing.
How It Works
Therapeutic relationship is central: The therapist provides three "core conditions":
- Unconditional positive regard: Acceptance without judgment
- Empathy: Deep understanding of your experience
- Congruence: Therapist is genuine, not hiding behind a professional mask
Non-directive: You lead. The therapist follows, reflecting back what they hear, helping you understand yourself more clearly.
No agenda: Sessions don't have predetermined goals or structure. You explore whatever feels important.
What Makes It Distinct
- Client-led: You choose what to talk about
- Relationship-focused: The relationship itself is healing
- Non-judgmental: Complete acceptance
- Exploratory: Process-oriented, not solution-focused
- Holistic: Sees you as whole person, not collection of symptoms
Best For
Relationship issues: Understanding patterns, improving intimacy, healing relational wounds
Low self-esteem: Experiencing unconditional acceptance helps you accept yourself
Identity and authenticity: Exploring who you are, what you want, living authentically
Personal growth: Not fixing problems, but becoming more fully yourself
When you need to be heard: If you've never experienced being truly listened to without judgment
Less Suitable For
- Specific symptom reduction (phobias, panic)
- People who want structure and direction
- Crisis requiring immediate intervention
Finding a Person-Centred Therapist
Look for:
- Training in person-centred or humanistic therapy
- BACP or UKCP registration
- Profile mentioning Rogers, core conditions, client-led
Psychodynamic Therapy
What It Is
Psychodynamic therapy explores how unconscious patterns, formed in early relationships, shape current life.
Core premise: Current difficulties often have roots in past experiences, particularly childhood. By understanding these connections and bringing unconscious patterns to awareness, you can change them.
How It Works
Exploration of past: Examining early relationships, attachment, formative experiences
Unconscious patterns: Noticing what you're not aware of—repetitive patterns, defences, projections
Transference: How you relate to your therapist often mirrors how you relate to others—examining this provides insight
Free association: Saying whatever comes to mind without censoring
Interpretation: Therapist offers insights about patterns and meanings
What Makes It Distinct
- Past-focused: Explores childhood and history
- Depth-oriented: Seeks underlying causes, not just symptoms
- Interpretive: Therapist offers insights
- Long-term: Usually open-ended
- Explorative: Less structured
Best For
Complex difficulties: Where problems don't have clear external cause
Relationship patterns: Repeating the same relationship dynamics
Personality difficulties: Deep-rooted ways of seeing self and others
When "why" matters: If you want to understand not just cope
Chronic low mood: Particularly when rooted in loss or unresolved grief
Less Suitable For
- Immediate symptom relief
- People who prefer present-focus
- Time-limited work
- Concrete, practical problems
Finding a Psychodynamic Therapist
Look for:
- Psychodynamic or psychoanalytic training
- UKCP or BPC (British Psychoanalytic Council) registration
- Long-term availability
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing)
What It Is
EMDR is a structured therapy specifically developed for trauma and PTSD.
Core premise: Traumatic memories get "stuck" and aren't processed properly. Bilateral stimulation (eye movements, tapping) helps the brain reprocess these memories, reducing their emotional charge.
How It Works
Eight-phase protocol:
- History and treatment planning
- Preparation and resourcing 3-7. Reprocessing traumatic memories using bilateral stimulation
- Re-evaluation
Bilateral stimulation: Following therapist's finger with your eyes (or using taps/sounds) whilst holding trauma memory
Memory reprocessing: Over sessions, the memory becomes less distressing, more like a normal memory
What Makes It Distinct
- Trauma-specific: Developed for PTSD
- Structured: Clear protocol
- Body-based: Works with sensations and bilateral stimulation
- Less talking: Don't need to narrate trauma in detail
- Evidence-based: Strong research support
Best For
PTSD: Single-incident trauma (assault, accident, etc.)
Specific traumatic memories: Flashbacks, intrusive images
Phobias: Rooted in specific traumatic event
Less Suitable For
- Complex developmental trauma (needs modification)
- General anxiety or depression without specific trauma
- People who prefer talk-based therapy
Finding an EMDR Therapist
Look for:
- EMDR Association UK accreditation
- Completed EMDR training (not just introductory course)
- Experience with your type of trauma
Gestalt Therapy
What It Is
Gestalt therapy emphasises present-moment awareness, personal responsibility, and authentic contact.
Core premise: Healing happens through awareness and authentic relating in the here-and-now.
How It Works
Present-focus: "What are you experiencing right now?" rather than analysing past
Experiments: Creative exercises (empty chair, role-play, movement) to increase awareness
Awareness: Noticing body sensations, emotions, thoughts, behaviour
Contact: Authentic, direct relating with therapist
What Makes It Distinct
- Experiential: Focuses on experience, not explanation
- Present-focused: Here-and-now awareness
- Creative: Uses experiments and embodied work
- Responsibility: Emphasises ownership and choice
Best For
Feeling stuck or disconnected: Gestalt helps you reconnect with immediate experience
Emotional avoidance: Brings you into present-moment feelings
People who think too much: Bypasses overthinking through experiential work
Less Suitable For
- People who prefer purely talk-based therapy
- Those uncomfortable with creative exercises
- Crisis requiring immediate stabilisation
Finding a Gestalt Therapist
Look for:
- Gestalt training (Diploma/MSc)
- UKCP registration
- Profile mentioning experiments, here-and-now, awareness
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
What It Is
ACT combines mindfulness, acceptance, and behaviour change strategies.
Core premise: Trying to control or eliminate difficult thoughts and feelings often makes them worse. Instead, accept them and commit to actions aligned with your values.
How It Works
Six core processes:
- Acceptance (of difficult feelings)
- Cognitive defusion (not believing all your thoughts)
- Present-moment awareness
- Self-as-context (you're not your thoughts)
- Values clarification
- Committed action
Metaphors and exercises: Uses creative language and experiential exercises
What Makes It Distinct
- Acceptance-based: Not trying to eliminate symptoms
- Values-driven: Focus on living meaningfully
- Mindfulness-informed: Present-moment awareness
- Action-oriented: Behaviour change towards values
Best For
Chronic conditions: Where eliminating symptoms isn't realistic (chronic pain, tinnitus)
Anxiety: Particularly health anxiety, worry, rumination
Value-driven work: When you feel directionless
Finding an ACT Therapist
Look for:
- ACT training or certification
- BABCP or BACP registration
- Mindfulness background
Integrative Therapy
What It Is
Integrative therapists draw from multiple approaches, adapting to your needs.
Core premise: No single approach suits everyone. Effective therapy combines elements from different modalities.
How It Works
Example integration:
- Person-centred relationship (safety, acceptance)
- CBT techniques (for specific symptoms)
- Psychodynamic exploration (understanding patterns)
- Gestalt experiments (when stuck)
Therapist flexibly uses what's helpful.
What Makes It Distinct
- Flexible: Adapts to you
- Holistic: Addresses multiple levels (thoughts, feelings, patterns, relationship)
- Personalised: Not one-size-fits-all
Best For
Most people: Integrative is increasingly common and effective
Complex presentations: When you need different approaches for different issues
Finding an Integrative Therapist
Look for:
- Training in multiple modalities
- Profile explicitly stating "integrative"
- BACP or UKCP registration
How to Choose
Start With Your Issue
Specific anxiety/phobia: CBT or EMDR
Trauma: EMDR, trauma-focused CBT, or sensorimotor psychotherapy
Depression: CBT, person-centred, or psychodynamic
Relationship patterns: Person-centred, psychodynamic, or Gestalt
Personal growth: Person-centred or existential
Chronic pain/illness: ACT
Consider Your Preferences
Prefer structure: CBT, ACT
Prefer exploration: Person-centred, psychodynamic
Want to understand why: Psychodynamic
Want tools and strategies: CBT, ACT
Value relationship: Person-centred, Gestalt
Ask Potential Therapists
"What's your approach?" "How do you typically work with [your issue]?" "Are you flexible in your approach?"
Remember: Relationship Matters Most
The therapeutic relationship predicts outcomes more than modality. Choose a therapist you feel comfortable with, even if their approach isn't textbook-perfect for your issue.
Final Thoughts
You don't need to become an expert in therapy modalities before starting. Most people choose based on:
- Therapist they connect with
- Availability and cost
- Recommendation
If the approach doesn't suit you after 3-4 sessions, you can:
- Discuss with therapist
- Try different therapist/approach
- Give it a bit longer
Therapy is flexible. The right approach is the one that helps you.
If you're in London and unsure what type of therapy might suit you, I offer a free initial consultation. I work integratively, combining person-centred, Gestalt, and transactional analysis, tailoring my approach to what you need.
You can reach me at 07887 376 839 or via the contact form on this website.
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